Well he gave me 1/3 of what he owes me in child support. Seems spending time in California is more important financially than paying what he owes his children. He spends practically no time with them. Or should I say he sleeps while his mom watches them.

feeling sorry for myself

While he is across the country visiting his "girlfriend" for the 3rd time since we seperated while I stay here and be the stable parent for the boys.

Dont know why I would think anything else would happen. 19 years of marriage, why would I think anything would be different in divorce. He gets to do what he wants and I make sure every one else is taken care of.

He has been gone since Wednesday. Tomorrow is 7 days and he hasnt even texted to see how the boys are... guess we know how important they are to him.

Of course, I would never say that to the boys. I wont bad mouth him to them.